Sooooo true. It’s not for everyone but it should be
Being with yourself seems to be the last place anyone wants to be. When you love yourself, truely do the work and love yourself, you will find it’s like being with your best friend. And when you have mastered the art of loving one self, you will find your fears melt away. Why would that be? Because you can’t be manipulated into a relationship or situation that you are not comfortable with. No more, “if you don’t do it my way, I’m leaving you” no more “we will just go without you” etc… these scenarios hold no water if there is no fear to carry it with. You and your independent self can make boundaries and live in the freedom of knowing you can’t be pressured in any situation fearing these people will leave you. The only loss that will be suffered is the loss of power they had over you!